This week we begin a new series in Sunday School called "Wanted". Here is the first week's summary:
Every day, each one of us is driven by our desires. It’s the filter by which we process every choice. It’s how we decide what we will eat. It’s how we decide what we will watch. It’s how we decide how we will spend our time. Desire is a part of who we are. But doesn’t it seem like so much of Christianity is about ignoring our desires? Doesn’t it seem like if we follow Christ we have to consistently set aside our “wants”? Or could it be our desires are not something we have to ignore, but simply follow to the true fulfillment of what we want, the true longing of each of our hearts?
Parents, take a minute this week to talk with you student. Talk about your spiritual desires as a follower of Christ, but also personal desires as a parent, employee, spouse, and individual. Don't be afraid to let your selfishness show, but show it in a way that is kept in check so as to separate carnal "selfish" desires from ones that benefit others. Do not allow yourself to lie to your children by ignoring selfish desire. Be real with them. Let them see your humanity and your struggle. Take a moment to ask them questions and do some "self evaluation" together.
Start off the conversation by asking, "What are some things you really want?" "If you could have one gift right now, what would it be?" "What is your most prized possession and why?" Then both of you make a wish list of things you want. See if you can find any commonality on the lists. Also see if you can find anything on the list that shows what your heart really desires? For example, if there’s a lot of tech and gadgets on your list, maybe you have a great need for “wonder,” you want to be dazzled or in awe of something.
Read this scripture to them, “If anyone is thirsty let him come to me and drink. . . . and streams of living water will flow from within him” (John 7:37-38 NIV). Talk with them about how being thirsty is wanting water and help them see that Jesus does not tell us not to thirst, but merely shows us what to thirst after. Himself.
It may be out of left field. It may not be the way you've ever thought. Consider it.
Jordan
“He who fears the LORD has a secure fortress, and for his children it will be a refuge.” Proverbs 14:26b
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